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Your Safety Plan
After the relationship is over, you still need to take care. Think about:
- changing the locks
- installing steel/metal doors
- installing a security system
- fitting smoke detectors
- getting an outside lighting system
- telling people who take care of your children the names of those who have permission to pick them up. If you have an injunction that names your children, give their carers and their schools a copy of the order
- discussing safety plans for your children with them. This is important, but especially so in times when they are not with you
- telling a couple of neighbours that your partner no longer lives with you and ask them to contact the police if s/he is observed near your home or your children
- telling someone at work about your situations and ask that person to screen your calls
- not using the same shops, banks or other businesses that you used when you lived with your partner
- getting an injunction from the court. Keep a copy with you all the time, ensure that one has been issued to the police, give one to your childrens carers, schools and to an appropriate person at work
- someone that you can call if you feel down and are thinking about returning to your partner
- attending workshops and support groups to gain support and strengthen your relationships with other people
Can I take my children with me when I leave? Yes, you should definitely take your children with you if at all possible. If you do not take them it may be more difficult later. Your partner may attempt to abduct, threaten, or harm the children to force you to return. If you are in immediate danger and cannot take your children contact the police and or social services department to ensure their safety
You may be able to obtain financial assistance to help you implement your safety plan. For example getting an injunction, installing a security system and fitting/changing locks. We may be able to assist you in obtaining these services. Please ring the Informal and Referral line and ask to speak to a case worker who can help you to access this help.